How then comfort ye me in vain, seeing in your answers there remaineth falsehood?
~ Job 21:34
Thou shalt not plow with an ox and an ass together.
~ Deuteronomy 22:10
Unlike terms don't attract, at least not in the kingdom, which may imply that if the ass truly loved the ox, it would have oxenited itself. To love the person that you will, hasten and become the person dimension that they are in. Strikingly, this is also quite the tackle in marriage because a person following the LORD will soon be more furnished than they are now; which places a demand for their spouse to also be more conformed to the image of Christ. Apparently, the more both of us look like Christ, the more we are compatible for each other. However, romantically, Christ does not raise like terms, He appoints unifiable terms.
If you are serious, then the coming relationship or relationship dimension is asking for an Ox ass and an Ass ox. This alone is the code for an enduring cross sexual intimacy. Well, there is an ass space for you in my oxenite heart and I hope there is an ox space in your assian heart. Then as you create more room for me in your heart and I create more room for you in my own, then we will end up with a mystery because we will have lost for each other while keeping our identities. In those days I saw that the more I plowed the ground of Christ, the more my spouse became different enough to warrant my pursuit. At the same time, the more I furrowed the ground of grace, the more they became understandable, easier to live with and easier to love.